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Communication: Preschool Children

This lesson will help you understand how children develop and refine communication skills during the preschool years. You will learn about communication milestones and what to do if you are concerned about a childs development.

Objectives
  • Identify typical language and communication milestones in preschool.
  • Discuss the role adults can play in supporting the communication skills of preschool children.
  • Discuss what to do if you are concerned with a childs development.

Learn

"Communication works for those who work at it." John Powell

Know

Preschoolers are able and ready communicators. They communicate primarily through language, but they also rely on gestures, facial expressions, and behaviors. This next section will highlight language and communication milestones for preschool children. It will be followed by a section that discusses these milestones by introducing three aspects of language and communication that caregivers can think about: receptive language, expressive language, and conversation skills.

Milestones

Language and communication develop with extraordinary speed during the early childhood years. Most children babble around 6 months, say their first words at about 1 year, use combined words around the end of their second year, and by the time they are 4 and 5-year-olds, they have elaborate vocabularies and know basic grammar rules. During the preschool years, children increase their vocabulary, use longer and more complex sentences, engage in problem solving, and talk about more than just what is happening at the moment. They talk about things that happened in the past as well as things that will happen in the future. Think of how exciting it is to watch a 3-year-old grow from stringing a few words together to holding elaborate conversations! The information on the chart below is a comprehensive list of language & communication milestones that children typically develop during preschool years. A brief version of this information aimed at parents can be found in an easy-to-use checklist from the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention. Keep in mind that individual differences exist when it comes to the specific age at which preschoolers meet these milestones and that each child is unique. As you may have already learned in the Cognitive and Physical courses, milestones provide a guide for when to expect certain skills or behaviors to emerge. Think of milestones as guidelines to help you understand and identify typical patterns of growth and development, or to help you know when and what to look for as young children mature. As a preschool teacher, you can use this information, what you learn from families and your own knowledge in the interactions, experiences and environments you create for preschool children.

Language and Communication Developmental Milestones in Preschool

Age 3
  • Carries on a conversation using at least two or more back-and-forth exchanges
  • Asks who, what, where, or why" questions
  • Says what action is happening in a picture book when asked like eating or running
  • Says first name when asked
  • Talks well enough for others to understand most of the time
  • Uses sentences that are three or four words long
Age 4
  • Says sentences that are 4 or more words
  • Says some words from a familiar song or story or nursery rhyme
  • Talks about at least one thing that happened during their day like, I played ball.
  • Answers simple questions like, What is a crayon for?
  • Says first and last name when asked
  • Knows some basic rules of grammar, such as correctly using he and she
Age 5
  • Tells a story with at least two events that theyve either heard about, or made up
  • Answers simple questions about a book or story read or told to them
  • Carries on conversation using at least three or more back-and-forth exchanges
  • Uses or recognizes simple rhymes (bat, cat, ball, tall)
  • Can define common items by use (eg., a fork is a thing you eat with)
  • Tells a simple story using full sentences

Source: Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (2021). Developmental milestones. An electronic resource available from:

Learning to communicate is a unique process and specific to each preschooler and family. Many aspects of a childs environment may contribute to challenges with communication development. A family may wonder about their young childs communication and language development and feel uncertain about what they are observing, as well as what to expect. As a preschool teacher, you have an opportunity to learn first from a family and consider offering additional developmental information, including possible warning signs. The Kids Included Together can be a valuable resource for you (http://www.kitonline.org), as well as the developmental milestones and act early information located on the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention website, . The table below also highlights possible warning signs for preschoolers:

Possible Warning Signs of Language & Communication Delays in Preschoolers

Three Year Olds
  • Drools or has very unclear speech
  • Doesnt speak in sentences
  • Doesnt understand simple instructions
  • Doesnt make eye contact
Four Year Olds
  • Cant retell a favorite story
  • Doesnt follow 3-part command
  • Doesnt use me and you correctly
  • Speaks unclearly
  • Ignores other children or doesnt respond to people outside of the family
Five Year Olds
  • Cant give first and last name
  • Doesn't use plurals or past tense properly
  • Doesnt talk about daily activities or experiences
  • Doesnt respond to people or responds only superficially

How Preschoolers Communicate

As you study the chart above, you may notice that some milestones are associated with childrens ability to understand and comprehend language or what others say (receptive communication), others with childrens ability to use words and speak (expressive communication), and others with their ability to engage in language exchanges with peers or adults (social engagement). Lets take a look at how these aspects of communication unfold as part of the remarkable development of young children from three to five years of age.

Receptive communication refers to a childs ability to listen and understand language. Children begin to understand more words, longer sentences, and more elaborate questions. They understand the names of most things in their daily environment and actions they see or engage in each day. Children also begin to understand new descriptive words such as soft, hard, or smooth, and emotion words such as mad, sad, happy, scary).

Understanding language is closely related to young childrens cognitive development. For example, 3-year-olds begin to use and understand what, "where," and why questions. By the time they are 4, children understand many words for colors, shapes, and sizes. Understanding language is also closely related to literacy and early math development. During the fourth year, children are learning to understand letter names and sounds and number names and values. Receptive language is essential for success in preschool as children need to understand how to follow directions, and listen to what teachers, other significant adults in their lives, or peers have to say.

Expressive communication refers to childrens ability to express themselves through words, gestures, and expressions. They communicate about their actions, emotions, needs, and ideas. They also respond to what others are saying. This is clear when you watch children playing with each other: they talk about play, describe their actions and ideas, and respond to what their friends are saying and doing. Preschool children may also talk to themselves when they are engaged in difficult tasks, to think out loud, or when they are excited. For example, a child may talk to herself while she is building a high tower with blocks, saying things like one more, dont fall!, or when she completes a new or challenging activity: I finished the big puzzle all by myself!

Social engagement involves the understanding and use of communication rules such as listening, taking turns and appropriate ways to use sounds and facial expressions. Conversations involve both understanding (receptive communication) and expressing (expressive communication). Preschoolers learn the ways to use sounds, gestures, facial expressions and words of their familys language(s) when adults interact, talk, read and sing with them.

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Effective communication skills are integral to childrens self-expression, their development of social relationships, and to their learning. The foundations for these skills begins at birth and is built throughout the early childhood years. When you engage in and sustain interactions with preschoolers based on their interests, you help strengthen the childs role as a partner in communication. Communication and language development happen best in the context of consistent, caring and responsive relationships.

Your role as a preschool teacher offers opportunities to support these skills throughout the day. You can use your knowledge about communication and language development alongside your observations of the children in your care. Together, this information can create opportunities to partner with children to maintain their interest through communication. For example, during mealtime with preschoolers, you can maintain eye contact, smile, repeat and add context to the preschoolers communication attempts, or follow a preschoolers eyes as they look at the green vegetables on their plate and then say, Youre looking at your green peas. What else is green? Or, talk about who is sitting next to a child. Who is going to sit beside you today at lunch, Tommy? Oh, look, Cassandra is going to sit beside you.

Your role as a preschool teacher also offers an opportunity to create an environment that provides what young children need to become good communicators early in life. A communication-rich environment is characterized by intentional and frequent use of such strategies as:

  • Learning about communication and language development in preschool children
  • Talking with and learning from families, as well as observing and identifying the developmental stage of individual preschoolers, and offering experiences and activities that can best support their development and learning
  • Adding words and ideas to best describe preschoolers understanding of experiences
  • Responding to childrens communication attempts and building on what children are saying
  • Using new, complex, and interesting words in conversations
  • Following childrens leads, cues, and preferences
  • Talking with children throughout the day about the events of the day
  • Embedding language games, songs, and rhymes into daily routines and experiences
  • Asking children meaningful open-ended questions about their actions, interests, events, or feelings
  • Reading to children frequently and providing opportunities for children to engage with books and printed materials
  • Incorporating alternative ways and systems of communication based on childrens individual needs (e.g., using pictures or visual cues to foster communication)
  • Providing daily opportunities to participate in activities that help them learn new skills or practice existing skills in fun, stimulating, and supportive environments
  • Providing opportunities for children to have conversations with each other through a variety of activities.

See

Communication in Preschool

Watch communication and language development across the preschool years.

Do

Understanding developmental milestones is an important aspect of working with young children. Learning about and understanding how preschoolers communicate will help you know how to support them in developing language and communication skills, and what kinds of learning experiences to plan in your classroom and program. Consider the following in your daily work with children in preschool:

  • Plan meaningfully: In your daily interactions with children, you can purposefully plan activities that will enable you to generate information about children and how they develop and refine their communication skills. For example, you can observe how children communicate with peers or express themselves as they engage in daily work in your classroom interest areas, how they follow directions as you lead them through activities such as circle time, or how they communicate during free play with peers. You should use this valuable observational information to plan activities that promote further development in children or to adapt goals and activities to meet the unique learning needs of individual children.
  • Be sensitive to individual childrens needs: As you engage in these observations, remember that each child is different and that sometimes children may not reach milestones as expected. However, if you are concerned with a childs development, talk with a trainer. This may be difficult, but it can make the difference in meeting a childs needs. Trainers can share information with families about typical development and let them know your program is available to help. If your program provides developmental screening tools, these can help begin a conversation about your concerns. You should always talk to a trainer, coach, or supervisor about ways to help the child progress in your classroom.
  • Be responsive to families needs and preferences: If family members approach you and share concerns about their childs development, direct them to discuss their concerns with a trainer. The trainer is responsible when dealing with developmental concerns and he or she will begin the process for identifying or referring the child. Families of children older than age 3 could also contact their local school district. The school district can arrange a free evaluation of the childs development for the child to receive services and support that meet his or her individual needs. Additionally, a pediatrician can perform developmental screenings and possibly refer the child to a specialist.

Learn about the tools your program uses to help understand each childs development. For example, your program might ask families to complete tools like the Ages and Stages Questionnaire (ASQ). This tool and others like it give your program information about each childs unique development. Talk to your trainer, supervisor, or coach to learn more about the tools and processes your program uses and who to talk to if families have questions.

Explore

The activities in this section aim at helping you learn more about:

  • how children in your classroom communicate, and
  • how responsive you are when it comes to promoting childrens communication.

Complete the activities and discuss your responses with your trainer, coach, or administrator.

Apply

Phonological awareness, or the ability to identify and be sensitive to how language sounds, plays a big role in reading development. Follow the link for an article from Reading Rockets on phonological and phonemic awareness: .

Next, read and review Phonological Awareness Activities for ideas on how you can help children in your classroom identify and become sensitive to how language sounds. Then, take a few minutes to complete the Phonologically Rich Classroom Checklist, and think about how often you are promoting phonological awareness for preschoolers in your classroom.

If families are looking for ideas about good books for the home, you can direct them to Common Sense Medias Best Books for Families (). This website has book lists for children from preschool through the teenage years.

Glossary

Developmental Delay:
This may be suspected when children do not meet developmental milestones at the expected times. Delays can occur in any area of development
Developmental Milestones:
A set of skills or behaviors that most children develop within a certain age range
Developmental Screening:
A tool used to help identify children who are not developing as expected and who may need supports. Screening can be completed by pediatricians, teachers, and others who know both the child and child development well
Expressive Communication:
The ability to use words to communicate with others
Phonemic Awareness:
Insight about oral language and in particular about the segmentation of sounds that are used in speech communication (International Reading Association)
Phonological Awareness:
Sensitivity to the sound structure of language (Yopp & Yopp, 2009)
Positive Affect:
Displaying joy, interest, and alertness in interactions with others
Private Speech:
When children talk to themselves
Receptive Communication:
The ability to understand spoken words

Demonstrate

True or false? Use of or recognition of simple rhymes typically occurs by age 3.
You have noticed that 4-year-old Kaiden is able to understand most directions but is not able to answer questions about what he is doing or who he is playing with, etc. Which of the three types of communication is Kaiden stronger in?
Finish this statement: If you have a concern about a childs communication you should
References & Resources

Berk, L. E. (2013). Child development (9th ed.). Upper Saddle River, NJ: Pearson Education Inc.

Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (2021). Learn the Signs, Act Early: Developmental Milestones.

Hart, B., & Risley, T.R. (1995). Meaningful Differences in the Everyday Experience of Young American Children. Baltimore, MD: Brookes Publishing.

Kids Included Together (KIT). (2022).

National Board for Professional Teaching Standards (2012). Early Childhood Generalist Standards for teachers of ages 3-8 (3rd ed.).

Paul H. Brookes Publishing Co., Inc. (2002). Ages and stages questionnaire (ASQ).

Phillips, B. M., Clancy-Menchetti, J., & Lonigan, C. J. (2008). Successful Phonological Awareness Instruction With Preschool Children: Lessons From the Classroom. Topics in Early Childhood Special Education, 28(1), 317.

Trawick-Smith, J. W. (2014). Early Childhood Development: A Multicultural Perspective, (6th ed.). Upper Saddle River, NJ: Pearson Education Inc.

Wright, T. S., Cabell, S. Q., Duke, N. K., & Souto-Manning, M. (2022). Literacy learning for infants, toddlers, and preschoolers: key practices for educators. (No Title).

Yopp, H. K., & Yopp, R. H. (2009). Phonological awareness is childs play! Young Children; 64, 1.