- Identify social-emotional milestones across different age levels.
- Identify the important role that a manager plays in facilitating childrens social-emotional competence.
- Identify ways to provide information to staff and families about childrens social-emotional milestones.
Learn
Know
The development of social-emotional skills is the foundation for childrens later friendships, social interactions, and academic learning. Childrens earliest memories and feelings of attachment with caregivers support their growth and development. The adults children interact with serve as important role models who support childrens growth and development in many ways. The National Association for the Education of Young Children (NAEYC) lists 10 early childhood standards and accreditation criteria for ensuring a high-quality program; it is not surprising that the first standard covers relationships.
Social Emotional Milestones by Age
As a Program Manager, you need to have a strong understanding of social-emotional milestones that occur during development. You also need to know how to locate and make available evidence-based resources on social-emotional development. These resources should be easily available to staff and families.
Social-Emotional Development of Infants & Toddlers
2 months
4 months
6 months
9 months
12 months
15 months
18 months
24 months
30 months
Source: Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (2021). Developmental milestone checklists.
Social-Emotional Development of Preschoolers
Age 3
Age 4
Age 5
Source: Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (2021). Developmental milestone checklists.
Social-Emotional Development of School-Agers
Middle childhood (ages 5-7)
Early adolescence (ages 8-12)
Source: Leyden, R., & Shale, E. (2012). What teachers need to know about social and emotional development. Camberwell, Victoria: ACER Press.
Supervise & 勛圖厙
The Program Managers Role
It is important as a manager for you to ensure that the staff members you hire and supervise build warm relationships with children and families. In addition, your center policies should support a caring community among the families, staff, and children and youth. Childrens social-emotional development is dependent on feeling that they are a part of a loving and caring community. Childrens overall development is closely tied to forming strong attachments to their caregivers (parents, families, and teachers). The child-caregiver relationship influences positive developmental outcomes across all developmental domains for the children and youth enrolled in the program.
Having a strong understanding of how to facilitate childrens social-emotional development can support staff members and families in their daily interactions with children and youth. As a Program Manager, you will provide families and staff members with information about the stages of a childs social skill development. When appropriate, you will help families and staff address delays and concerns about a childs social-emotional development. Ways you can provide developmental information:
- Include brief examples of social-emotional milestones in program materials, such as newsletters, social media, and program website.
- Provide brief tip sheets or other resources in families home langauges that families can review, in a Families Corner of the child-care program.
- Share handouts and videos from reliable, evidence-based sources on social-emotional development.
As a manager, you should model your interest in the development of each child and youth who participates in the program. Knowing when to reassure staff and families and when to assist families in obtaining outside resources and referrals to help address a childs social-emotional needs is a critical part of your role as a Program Manager. Listen as a program leader outlines the process they use to ensure that classroom activities meet the social emotional needs of children.
Developmental Screening
Infant-Toddler and Preschool Screening
Become familiar with various screening materials that assess young childrens social and emotional development. You can learn more about different Social-Emotional Screening tools by reviewing information provided by the , and the Learn attachment, Screening for Social Emotional Concerns: Considerations in the Selection of Instruments. Social-emotional screening tools can help you focus staff and families on childrens social-emotional development. For example, the Ages & Stages Questionnaires: Social-Emotional, Second Edition (ASQ:SE-2) (Squires et al., 2015) addresses typical stages of social-emotional development for children 172 months. The Devereux Early Childhood Assessment for Preschool - 2nd Edition (DECA-P2) (Mackrain, M. & Cairone, K., 2012) examines childrens initiative, self-control, and attachment and problem behaviors for children 3 to 5 years. The Devereux Early Childhood Assessment for Infants and Toddlers (DECA-I/T) (Mackrain, M. & LeBuffe, P.,2007) assesses children 1-36 months. Screening tools such as these can be helpful to staff members and families. You will find it interesting to compare the parents perceptions and observations with those of the staff members. Having a checklist can provide evidence of concerns about a childrens development. The earlier these concerns are noted and addressed with the childs health-care provider, a mental health consultant, or a consultant from the early-intervention system, the better the outcomes for the child and family.
School-Age Screening
As children enter the primary grades and middle childhood, they begin to learn more about themselves. They typically become familiar with their own strengths, are interested in forming special friendships, and become active in competitive games and sports. Children build resilience and self-sufficiency as they engage in problem-solving situations and independently completing tasks. Once again, as a Program Manager, you can serve as a resource by providing staff and families with information about typical development and the many ways young people can increase their social-emotional competence.
For youth ages 6 to 12 years old, there are many screening and assessment instruments for children with evidence of delays in social and emotional development (see for more information about different tools for school-age children). Typically, these screening and assessment tools are administered by trained personnel in the school system or by healthcare professionals. If the child-care or youth program staff members have documented concerns about an individual child, it is best to plan a meeting to discuss the concerns with the family. You and your staff members can learn from the family whether these concerns have also been observed outside the program setting. Some families may give written consent for you or a staff member involved with the child to discuss strategies for addressing the childs needs with school personnel. When children and youth receive school-based services or other mental-health services related to social-emotional concerns, it becomes critical for all the adults to have a written plan and regularly share information to ensure that the strategies being used are consistently implemented across settings. When working directly with the child, you will take join with the family to undertake this collaborative process.
Understanding Typical Development and Common Challenges
As a Program Manager you can support staff members in building positive relationships with children, families, and colleagues, which in turn creates a strong, caring community within the child-care program. There are many ways your program provide resources and information for staff members and families to understand and enhance childrens growth and development. Listen as a Program Manager describes how their program uses a lending library to support families in understanding how best to address childrens needs.
Your knowledge of social-emotional developmental milestones and where to access appropriate resources is key to building a quality program that facilitates childrens social- emotional growth. There are several ways you can support families and staff members in this work:
- Provide families and staff members with accessible, evidence-based resources on childrens social-emotional developmental milestones. Whenever possible, provide resources in families and staffs home language.
- Provide a list of resources in the community that families can access if they need assistance to address a childs social or emotional needs.
- Ensure that staff have access to evidence-based screening tools that can assist them in identifying any concerns about social-emotional development.
- With the parents written consent, collaborate with school-based or health service providers who serve a child or youth enrolled in the program.
- Reflect upon your own emotional strengths and model healthy social-emotional interactions with children, families, and colleagues to create a positive center climate.
Explore
Read the attached Practical Suggestions for The Classroom Teacher or Parent handout adapted from an article written by Dr. Barbara Fatum, school psychologist and consultant who writes about emotional learning and emotional intelligence. You may already be aware of some of these suggestions, while others may be new to you.
Once youve read through the handout, complete the Practical Suggestions Reflection activity to plan for how you can consciously incorporate one or more of these suggestions into your daily interactions with children, staff and families in your program.
Apply
The Social-Emotional Development: Infant to School-Age handout is a quick guide that details the development of social-emotional skills across childhood. Share this resource with staff so that they can learn to recognize the wide variety of ways children develop socially and emotionally.
The Preschool Policy Brief offers specific policy recommendations for childcare professionals and policymakers based on what experts know about childrens social emotional development. Take a few minutes to read this document and think about how these statements apply to your program and community.
The Milestone Moments handouts provide an overview of typical development from 2 months through age 5. These checklists (offered in English and Spanish) from the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC) are excellent tools to share with families. Additional milestone information for school-aged children can be viewed and downloaded from the CDCs webpage.
Glossary
Demonstrate
Baker, A. C., & Manfredi/Petitt L. A. (2004). Relationships, the Heart of Quality Care: Creating community among adults in early care settings. Washington, DC: National Association for the Education of Young Children.
The Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC). (2021). CDCs developmental milestones.
Fatum, B. (2013). Healthy classrooms, emotional intelligence, and brain research.
Mackrain, M. & LeBuffe, P. (2007). Devereux Early Childhood Assessment for Infants and Toddlers (DECA-I/T). Kaplan Press.
Mackrain, M. & Cairone, K. (2012). Devereux Early Childhood Assessment (DECA) Preschool (2nd ed.). Kaplan Press.
National Center for Pyramid Model Innovations (NCPMI). (n.d.).
Squires, J., Bricker, D., & Twombly, E. (2015). Ages & Stages Questionnaires: Social-Emotional, Second Edition (ASQ:SE-2). Baltimore, MD: Brookes Publishing Co.