Adapted from Center for the Study of Social Policy (n.d.). Strengthening Families Self-Assessment for Family Child Care Providers. To view the original assessment tools please visit: .
Key: Y = Yes, I do this | N = No, I do not do this | * = I want to learn more about the value of doing this
Different ways I can value and support parents |
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Have a warm relationship with each parent and with other members of the child’s family. |
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Keep information about children and families confidential. |
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Show respect for families’ points of view. |
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Make an effort to honor families’ special requests for their children. |
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Encourage parents to share skills, talents, and cultural traditions in the program. |
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Show parents appreciation for things like participating in the program. |
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Encourage fathers and other male family members to get involved. |
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Encourage parents to attend child development, parenting, and self-improvement conferences, workshops, or trainings. |
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Encourage parents to have input into decisions about the program. |
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Different ways I can facilitate friendships and mutual support |
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Introduce parents to one another. |
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Connect parents who have same-age children, similar interests, and like circumstances, such as those who speak the same language. |
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Plan ways for parents to come together, meet new people, and enjoy a sense of community. Ex: Periodic events (family fun nights), celebrations or graduations, field trips, cultural events, special events for dads, etc. |
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Reach out to isolated parents: Call or send a note home, personally invite them to activities, connect with resources. |
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Model friendly behavior: Greet children and families, include all children and families in events, help resolve issues among parents, promote understanding of cultural differences. |
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Read about ways to increase family engagement. |
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Participate in educational/training opportunities about ways to engage parents in the program. |
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Different ways I can strengthen parenting |
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Talk with families about the program’s child guidance practices. |
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Explain why physical punishment is not allowed by anyone in the program including parents and family members. |
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Explain why verbal punishment (yelling and name calling) is not allowed by anyone in the program including parents and family members. |
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Explain the child guidance techniques you model. |
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Model warm and positive interactions with children. |
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Use appropriate child guidance techniques. |
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Learn about parents’ family/cultural/ethnic expectations and practices about parenting. |
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Discuss parenting and child development issues whenever a parent asks for information or appears to need support. |
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Discuss parenting and child development issues in a non-judgmental way. |
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Share information with families through books, brochures, opportunities for families to come together, postings on bulletin boards or newsletters, take-home materials. |
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Encourage parents to observe in the program. |
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Encourage parents to discuss guidance challenges they have at home. |
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Provide info about: Age-appropriate expectations for children’s behavior. |
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Provide info about: Recognizing and reinforcing appropriate behavior. |
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Provide info about: Alternate ways to respond to inappropriate behavior. |
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Provide info about: Ways parents can encourage children to express their emotions appropriately at home. |
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Provide info about: Ways parents can encourage children to practice positive social skills at home. |
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Different ways I can facilitate the social and emotional development of children |
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Recognize feelings and name them. |
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Model how to express emotions appropriately, problem solve, and treat others with respect and kindness. |
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Encourage children to express feelings through words, artwork, expressive play, and actions. |
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Encourage children to observe and listen to the feelings of others. |
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Encourage children to name their feelings and solve problems together. |
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Encourage children to form friendships, use respectful language, and respect differences. |
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Help families understand social and emotional development by: Informing families of the meaning of social and emotional development. |
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Help families understand social and emotional development by: Informing families of the importance of social and emotional development throughout childhood. |
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Help families understand social and emotional development by: Provide families with opportunities to discuss social and emotional issues within a cultural context (i.e., at what age do I expect my child to dress or feed herself?). |
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Help families understand social and emotional development by: Give parents ideas about how to promote social and emotional development at home. |
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Different ways I can link families to services and opportunities |
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Talk with parents about: Their interests, skills, needs, and goals for themselves and their children. |
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Talk with parents about: Resources, websites, parents, and community opportunities that may help them continue to achieve their goals. |
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Encourage families to share information about community resources with each other. |
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Provide access to up-to-date information about various resources and services that are available in the community. |
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Different ways I can respond to family crisis |
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Develop a personal relationship with each family. |
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Let parents know they can turn to you in times of crisis in the following ways: By listening, showing concern, sharing some of your own personal concerns or desires. |
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Let parents know they can turn to you in times of crisis in the following ways: By sharing materials and policies when families enroll in the program. |
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Respond proactively to signs of parent or family distress by: Expressing your concern and offering help.
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Respond proactively to signs of parent or family distress by: Making yourself available to the parent if they need to talk. |
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Respond proactively to signs of parent or family distress by: Offering to connect the family to needed resources. |
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Participate in training opportunities about ways to respond to families in crisis. |
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Adapted from Center for the Study of Social Policy (n.d.). Strengthening Families Self-Assessment for Family Child Care Providers.
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