Read each of the following descriptions of behavior. Decide whether it is developmentally expected, concerning, or unsafe. Then write one idea for how you would respond. Discuss your answers with a coach, trainer, or administrator.
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An 8-year-old pulls the fire alarm at the after-school program
Unsafe
Ensure safety during evacuation. Work with fire safety officials on reporting procedures.
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A pre-toddler bites another child on the face and breaks the skin
Unsafe
Attend to the victim and separate the children. Follow procedures for incident reporting.
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A toddler screams any time her hands touch cold, wet, or messy materials. She pulls away and cries.
Concerning
Gradually introduce new materials. Use a First/Then board to encourage her to try a new activity before doing something she really likes. Provide sensory experiences that she enjoys.
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A 4-year-old plays with his food at lunch and makes his friends laugh
Developmentally expected
Sit with the children and start a conversation.
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A 12-year-old tells a peer he should not go to school tomorrow if he knows what’s good for him
Unsafe
Follow procedures for reporting to authorities, school, and families.
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A 7-year-old teases others on the playground
Concerning
Actively supervise. Consider developing scripted story about name calling and its effects.
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A 3-year-old leaps out of his families’ mini-van and runs across the child development center parking lot
Unsafe
Take action to ensure child safety. Work with management on immediate safety concerns and discussion with family.
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A toddler refuses to participate in clean-up and continues dumping toys
Developmentally expected
Get near the child and model cleaning up. Make it fun by adding a song or making it a game (I’ll pick up blue, you pick up red!)
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